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Wednesday, 8 November 2017

Losing People

One of the significant changes I am noticing in the process of my growing up is losing people. I thought that there could be many more people going through the same phase. Few of us are quite great at handling emotions and heartbreaks, but most of us get directionless and we try to fill the empty space with the wrong people and end up being at the same place again. For the longest time I thought that losing people was a curse, but actually losing people is the only solution to break this vicious cycle.

Do you remember Olaf telling ‘some people are worth melting for’ to Anna in the movie Frozen? Well, most people are not worth it. If you are with people who aren’t treating you the way you deserve to be treated, then you MUST leave. Once you grow up, move ahead in life, then being the popular kid of school or University means nothing. It’s only your hard work that pays off. If your friends are making your life difficult, get rid of them. Let the odds stay against you, don’t disturb your calm for them.

In this age of filters, real people are hard to find. We get attracted to pretty faces and soon ingress them in our heart and they turn to be ugly from inside. Trust me on this, you are better off alone than with wrong people. You need to stop seeing yourself through others’ eyes. It is impossible to walk with thirty people in your life and trust them all equally, but if at the age of thirty you have three people in your life, they are GOLD, don’t lose them!

The journey of life is full of ups and downs so try not focusing on just falls. When you were young, you have seen big dreams, try not disappointing yourself. You are a privilege have in anyone’s life, learn to abandon the people who make you feel the opposite. 

Life is really short. Choose people who make you feel happy and special.


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